FREE WEDDIING OPPORTUNITY

If you would like to get married, but cannot afford the wedding of your dreams....Register to win a free wedding with The Nuptial Network of Greater Rochester and WARM 101.3.

Visit the WARM 101.3 website at http://www.warm1013.com and tell us why you deserve a free wedding.

The wedding will be held on Sunday March 29, 2009 and both the ceremony and reception will be held at the RIT Inn and Conference Center.

You must be willing to have the WARM 101.3 listeners select everything for you from your dress to flowers and everything in between.

You also must use all of the participating vendors from the Nuptial Network of Greater Rochester.

There will be no substitutions, additions or exceptions made.

We would love to hear your story!

BRIDAL SHOWS

HAPPY BRIDAL SHOW SEASON!!

If you are planning a 2009/2010 wedding and are not planning on hiring a planner, you may want to think about attending a couple of bridal shows.

I don't suggest going to more than 2 or 3 shows or you may become confused and also they get to be very repetitious at that point.

Below are some tips to make the most of each show you attend.

• Register Online or call the contact number listed in the advertising to avoid long line.

• Many vendors will offer a special discount, as a show special, but don't let that intimidate you...take your time and make sure this is the vendor that you want. If you decide to book a service at the show to take advantage of any specials, make sure the vendor provides you with a contract. Take a few minutes to read the contract and understand it before you sign and pay a deposit. Some vendors will allow you to take the contract home to show your fiance or parents and will still let you take advantage of the discounted price if you book within 24 hours...SO ASK QUESTIONS!
  
  
• Bring self addressed labels, this will speed up the process of registering at each booth.
  
  
• Bring your appointment book/pda to make appointments.
  
  
• Bring a camera to take pictures of vendors or ideas you like.
  
  
• Collect information from all vendors to read over when you get home and are relaxed.
  
  
• Bring Cash, some shows offer a cash bar or snacks at your own expense.

Also, if you win a prize, make sure you discuss exactly what you have won with the vendor and ask for something in writing as to the terms of that prize...ie...a percentage off a service, etc.

CONGRATULATIONS

CONGRATULATIONS.......TO EVERYONE WHO BECAME ENGAGED OVER THE HOLIDAY'S!

First of all....enjoy the next couple of days.....once you have chosen a date...DON'T GET OVERWHELMED...stay focused...and STAY ON TRACK!

Over the next few weeks, I will be giving you information to get started.
Once you have set a date....the first thing you should do is answer these three questions:

1. Where would you like your ceremony and reception. If the answer to this question is "I DON'T KNOW" ...that s okay...we can come back to this.

2. How many people are you inviting? You can't choose a reception site until you have determined how many people you will be accommodating.

3. How much money do you have to spend. Whether you have a $10,000,00 or $100,000.00 to spend, you must start with a budget or you will get very confused.

MERRY CHRISTMAS

Wishing you all a Safe and Happy Holiday!!!!!!!

Christmas

Every year starting around Thanksgiving, you take your life in your own hands going to the grocery store or mall. Everyone is miserable and just plain rude!!

Everyone complains about all of the preparations for the Holiday Season and seem to resent it!!

This year with the economy being what it is, it seems worse! I have to admit, sometimes I fall into this category, I think at one time or another we all get caught up in the negativity of the holiday rather than focusing on the positive.

I think we all seem to loose the true meaning of Christmas. It is not about how much money you spend or how many presents you buy, it is a time to focus on your spirituality and your family. It is a time to celebrate the birth of Jesus.

Start special traditions that will be meaningful to you and your family. Create memories that will last a lifetime. Plan a very special Christmas dinner and don't complain about it.

The next time you run into one of these "grumpy, negative" people in the mall ..... smile and wish them a Merry Christmas. They may not respond or smile....but you will!!!

PLANNING A BACHELORETTE PARTY

When most people think of a "Bachelorette Party" they think of bar hopping, drinking and strip clubs!

More and more women are getting married at an older age, and they are not comfortable with bar hopping!

If the bride isn't all that thrilled about going out drinking there are other fun bachelorette party ideas.

Many beauty salons and day spas are now offering bachelorette parties---you book a room for the entire party, and each guest gets a manicure or pedicure. Often the spa will throw in drinks and munchies or will allow you to bring in your own, which will cost you less. Check with your local salons and day spas for prices and "party specials."

Join forces with the "groomsmen" to combine the bachelor and bachelorette parties. A wine tour is always a fun alternative. Rent a limo, stock it with munchies and hit your favorite trail!

Usually each person involved pays for themselves and everyone "kicks" in for the bride.

The point of the party is to give the bride a fun "send off" into married life......make sure whatever you plan is something she will enjoy and always remember!!!!